The title sums up the lady Ms. D is. Likes her tea strong and has even stronger opinions. I have clashed with her over some of her views, but we make up over tea and cake. You can't change people who don't want to change, so you just have to manage it. We discussed her life in America, I took down her shopping list for Saturday and discussed where I could help out on Saturday too. She wanted me to stay to watch QVC with her... She wanted to point out an item that she thinks I would like... I had to go home for dinner!