One of the pluses about shopping regularly for someone is that you get to know their habits and the things that may have been forgotten. Mr J was so keen to explain where I might get brown basmati rice that he forgot some of his regular items. So I chatted with him as I ploughed a familiar furrow around ASDA - the yogurt and Actimel were definitely missing but he was OK for raisins, it was important to check though.